“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, But desire fulfilled is a tree of life.”
— Proverbs 13:12
About me
To be a bit vulnerable with you.. Even though I am now married to my sexy, kind, godly husband, who only yesterday loved me so sweetly by holding space for me and praying for me as I had a breakdown.
Only, 5 years ago, I was finally in a relationship with a godly man who I thought I would marry. 6 months in I was blindsided by betrayal and lonelier than ever. On my birthday I found myself on a hotel bed crying my eyes out after hearing him say the words "I just have no feeling for you, and I don't know why because you're great." I proceeded to date him for 6 more months. It got so bad that I started to wonder if I was crazy, or if it really was possible to have a godly man who would really love me. Eventually, I was faced with a choice: Get support to learn to communicate my needs and trust my instincts and step out of this relationship into the love story that the Lord has for me, Or give up and agree with the lie that there are no godly men since this one was suppossed to be godly just hurt me like all the other men before.
I made a choice to get support for myself looking to mentors, counselors, and dating coaches and I discovered the secrets to unlocking my personal love code and how to ask for what I needed. Soon after, I was able to get out of the relationship and step into my unashamed unique self. Now as you know I’ve gone on to marry the kindest man I know who cherishes me, hears me when I speak and wants to create a family together.
This is why I am so passionate about helping Christian singles over 30 unlock their love code, ask for what they need and create healthy godly relationships that last.
Havah
You have 75,000 thoughts a day
You make 35,000 decisions a day
Only 5% of your thoughts and behaviours are conscious
95% is unconscious activity
You make tens of thousands of decisions per day. Your conscious brain can only process 5% of them. That leaves 95% of them up to your subconscious mind based on your beliefs.
Sometimes those decisions are not what your conscious mind would agree with either. Beliefs are not intellectual agreements but rather they are mostly subconscious neural networks created when an event creates an emotion.
We will work together to reprogram these beliefs to ones of your choosing. You do not need to be a slave of your subconscious beliefs any longer!
Let us start NOW!
your heart has over 5,000 times more electromagnetic fields than your brain
you have over 40,000 intelligent neurons in your heart
Happiness and a strong sense of emotional vitality help to keep your heart healthy
The heart is the largest energy field, extending beyond the body by at least a few feet.
Modalities such as prayer and energy work tap into the extensive energy field of the heart for deep healing.
“Call to me and I will answer you, and I will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known…Behold, I will bring to it health and healing, and I will heal them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security. I will restore the fortunes of Judah and the fortunes of Israel, and rebuild them as they were at first. I will cleanse them from all the guilt of their sin against me, and I will forgive all the guilt of their sin and rebellion against me. And this city shall be to me a name of joy, a praise and a glory before all the nations of the earth who shall hear of all the good that I do for them. They shall fear and tremble because of all the good and all the prosperity I provide for it.”
— Jeremiah 33:3,6-9